Jon Manfrelotti

Ray is bewildered when Debra starts initiating sex more.

When Marie crashes and ultimately ruins her Tupperware party, Debra decides that the day has finally come to tell Ray's mom she can't stand her being so critical, intrusive, and overbearing - - and she takes pen to paper. Horrified by thinking what this could cause, Ray does everything in his power to intercept the letter.

Memories of how they first met flood back when Ray and Debra prepare Ally for her first play date with a little boy. The first time Ray and Debra laid eyes on each other; their first kiss; the first time Marie met her future daughter-in-law (and what she thought of her!).

After Ray urges Debra to go swing dancing with Robert (letting himself off the hook), he can't believe how infatuated the two become with their new hobby -- and it's starting to tick him off. Meanwhile, Ray sees a side of Marie that he never fully expected.

Debra tries to teach Raymond how to have a "normal" mid-life crisis, like everyone else, after he starts planning his burial. Triggered by the realization that he's shrinking and is no longer six feet tall, Raymond begins to go through a mid-life crisis.